I determined about two hours after Amity week began that I am just not chill enough to be Amity. I mean, I can do some of it. Here's the definition from the Divergent fansite:
1. friendship; peaceful harmony.
2. mutual understanding and a peaceful relationship, especially between nations; peace; accord.
It’s not just about banjos and apple-picking.* It’s about cultivating strong relationships and trying to understand each other.
I see Amity members as people who can let things just roll off them. I don't think they would argue, I don't think they would mutter snarky things, I don't think they would glower mutinously at their fiance when he didn't put his cup in the dishwasher. So yeah. Even more than Abnegation, this faction is not for me. I think I will do better with the final three. I'm ready for them!